(28/12/2011) First and Second 首先，然后

We are not put on earth for ourselves,

but are places here for each other.

If you are always for others,

then in time of need, someone will be there for you.

--Jeff Warner

我们不是为了自己而被放在这世上，

而是是为了彼此而存在。

如果你总是为他人，

那你需要帮助时，很自然地会有人为你。

--杰夫华纳

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People know how you treat em', and they feel it.

他人知道你怎么对待他/她，而他们感受得到。

How much you cared, how much effort you put in,

they're sure as crystal clear.

你有多在乎，而尽了多少力量，

他们非常地清楚。

Treat people how you wanted to be treated.

People will naturally appreciate you,

if you appreciate em' first.

就如你所愿地怎么被人对待，同样地对待那些人。

大家会很自然地珍惜你若你先珍惜他人。

(25/12/2011) Fractures 破裂

You know, life fractures all of us

into lilttle pieces.

It harm us, but it's how we glu

those fractures back together

that makes us stronger.

你知道吗？

生活把我们都打碎成小碎片。

它虽伤害我们，但却是我们如何

把那些小碎片黏起来，

使我们更坚强。

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Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass.

It's about learning to dance in the rain.

生命不是在等待那风暴过去，

而是学习在雨中跳舞。

(24/12/2011) Solitary 独自

这只是倒霉的一天，而不是糟糕的一生。

Sometimes bein lonely makes me

look up in the sky and

realize that God is with me.

有些时候，寂寞让我望向天空

并发现上帝与我同在。

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There must be time when you feel that

no one cares about you,

no one understands you,

no one will ever understand how you feel,

no one will bother to even look at you

or ask you 'are you okay?'

Remember that God is still watching.

人生中一定会有这些时候， 当你觉得

没有人关心你，

没有人了解你，

没有人能够明白你的感受，

也没有人注意你，甚至问你“你还好吗？”

记得，上帝仍然看顾你。

(20/12/2011) Heart Core 内心

The best and most beautiful things

in the world cannot be seen nor touched,

but are felt in heart.

--Gibson Publishing

世上最好和最美丽的事物

是看不见也摸不到的，

但我们可以感受得到。

--吉布森出版

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The most beautiful things in this world,

are usually untouch-able and unpossess-able.

It's given by God, blessed by Him.

世界上最美好的，通常都摸不到，得不到。

是上帝赐福我们的。

That's why, there's a gift we called memories.

Memories are the only thing that remains the same,

even when feelins fade, places change,

and everyone walks away.

也就因为如此，有个礼物叫回忆。

就算感觉不同了，地方改变了，

大家也离开了，回忆是唯一不会改变的。

(15/12/2011) Say Hi 说嗨

There are no such thing as strangers,

only friends that we have not met.

世上只有未曾见面的朋友，

没有所谓的陌生人。

Strangers are just friends waiting to happen.

陌生人只是那些还未认识的朋友。

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If all you do is to wait for someone

to walk over and say "hi",

instead of takin step first,

you'll never happen to have more friends

than how you admire others have

若你所做的就是等待其他人

先和你说“嗨”，

反而不是先过去打招呼，

那你也只会一直羡慕那些拥有很多朋友的人，

却永远得不到同样的朋友。

People are lonely because

they build walls instead of bridges.

人会感到孤单，因为他们选择了

打造一堵墙而不是一座桥梁。

(14/12/2011) Breakthrough 突破

Life is all about breakingthrough.

生命的一切都是为了突破。

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Breakthrough.

Is somethin that you overcame.

It can be a phobia, a challenge,

a mission etc.

突破，所指的就是你所克服的。

它可以是你的恐惧，一个挑战等等。

In fact, it's just somethin

that seems impossible,

for you, just you.

That's why it seems so hard,

when everybody think it's just ABC.

Because it's your weakness,

it's what you afraid of.

实际上，那只是件让你觉得不可能的事。

就只是你觉得，你认为的。

或许大家都认为那非常简单，

但因为那就是你的弱点，是你所害怕的。

All you need to do is to stop thinkin about it

and focus on victory and the reason

of winnin or breakingthrough

it actually doesn't scare you from doin anymore.

只要你抛开那种想法和恐惧

并专注于胜利和突破的原因，

其实那一切都吓不着你了。

Sometimes, it's just worth the risk.

Riskiness helps to grow.

有些时候是值得你去冒冒险。

冒险对成长过程是健康的。

(13/12/2011) Satisfaction 知足

数一数你的祝福，不是你的烦恼。

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STOP COMPLAININ.

停止埋怨吧！

We're always desirin for what we don't have.

Desperate for what others have,

instead of appreaciate what we're havin.

我们总是渴望那些我们没有的。

渴望其他人拥有的，却不珍惜现有的一切。

(12/12/2011) Forgiveness 原谅

Forgiveness is not somethin we do for other people.

We do it for ourselves to get well and move on.

宽恕不是为了其他人而做的。

宽恕是为了让自己更好过并继续前进。

Forgiveness means lettin go

of a hurtful situation and

movin on with your own happiness.

--Amanda Ford

宽恕所指的就是释放一个痛苦/伤人

的情况并继续与你的快乐前进。

--阿曼达福特

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Everybody deserve a second chance.

But a second chance requires a price to pay.

Which is a minus point in trust.

每一个人都应得个第二次的机会。

可是，第二次的机会是需要付出代价的。

那就是在信任里扣分。

Forgive and forget?

Now, that's funny.

The truth is that, you'll never forget.

It just fade a lilttle by little as days past.

原谅和遗忘？

实际上，你是无法遗忘的。

它只会随着日子一点点地淡忘。

Now, forgiveness is really important.

If only you learn to forgive,

it's another new beginning of happiness.

宽恕是非常重要的。

也只有当你学会宽恕时，

那才是另一个新的快乐的开端。

Forgive your enemy, but remember the sucker's name.

And I forgive you means I appreciate this relationship with you.

原谅你的敌人，但记住她/他的名字。

而我原谅你的主要原因是因为我珍惜和你的关系。

(11/12/2011) Beyond 超越

We come to love not by finding

a perfect person,

but by learning to see an imperfect

person perfectly.

--Sam Keen, philosopher

当你面对爱时，重点并不在于

寻找一个完美的人，而是学习如何看待

一个不完美的人为完美。

--山姆明锐，哲学家

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Nobody is perfect.

We all want everybody to think we are,

but perfection is some crazy mythical state

that we can never achieve.

没有一个人是完美的。

我们每一个人都希望可以让大家认为自己是完美的，

可是完美就只是个我们永远无法取得的神话疯狂的状态。

It is a goal beyond grasp,

always shifting and changing and taunting us,

because it knows we can NEVER reach it.

它只是种超越目标的把握，

总是转移和不断地改变和嘲弄我们，

因为它知道我们是永远无法得到的。

(10/12/2011) Most Precious 最珍贵的

Love is the most precious value in life.

爱是人生中最贵重的价值。

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Love makes a change.

In all ways.

爱能够改变一切。

Any virtues is related with love.

任何一个价值都和“爱”有关。

Kindness, responsibility, honesty,

compassion, etc.

善良，责任感，坦诚，怜悯心，等等。

When love is present,

all these will naturally follow by.

On the other hand,

without love.

These will NOT exist.

当爱存在时，以上的价值也都会存在。

然而，若没有爱，以上的都一定不会存在。

Love is not simply what it is.

It's easy to say "I love you".

You can say you really mean it.

But you never know.

If only you can answer this question with a yes:

"Are you willing to die for me?"

Then you truly mean it.

爱不单纯的就是爱。

说“我爱你”是件非常简单又容易的事情。

你也可以说你是认真的。

但你并不清楚，也不会真正的明白。

除非你可以以是回答这个问题：

“你愿意为我而牺牲你的生命吗？”

那才证明你是认真的。

For guys,

don't test a woman heart

because you don't know the magnitude

of the pain she been through before you enter her life.

(I'm not sayin any certain guy, nor do I mean all guys.

I'm just sayin this because there's people like these

out there, somewhere.)

男士们，

不要测试一个女人的真心，因为你不会明白，

你对她所造成的伤害有多深，比起你进入她生命之前。

（我并没有指定是谁，也不是在说所有的男士，

我只是想说的确有这类人的存在。）

(05/12/2011) Absolutely No Point 重点

我们根本就没有必要为那些我们无法改变

的事情而感到十分的懊恼。

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Have you ever done somethin

you regret the next morning when you wake up?

你曾经做了什么让你隔天起床时后悔的事情吗？

It might not necessary be somethin bad or wrong,

it might just be somethin you wished you hadn't done.

那不一定是什么坏事或什么很不应该的事，

就很单纯的希望你并没有那样做。

Like stay up late and woke up late?

Had too much choc and woke up gainin 3 more kg?

Idk, what exactly it is for you, but for me

there's lotsa regrets in my life.

比如说熬夜然后很迟才起身？

晚上吃了太多巧克力而隔天早上起身时增了3公斤？

我并不清楚你会后悔的事情有什么，

但对我而言，在我的生命里有太多太多的后悔了。

I've been through all these regret,

and I realize there's no way of goin back to the past

like a time machine? No.

It's just a matter of movin on, which takes time.

我经历这一切的过程中，我发现我根本就回不到过去。

然而，也只能继续向前迈进，而那需要时间。

Time doesn't heal or change anythin,

it's what you do with that time.

时间无法医治，改变和弥补任何事情。

时间只是在于你如何去利用它，并解决你现有的问题。

(03/12/2011) Somethin Wonderful 家庭

Bein a family means

you are a part of

something really wonderful.

It means you will love

and to be loved for the rest of your life,

no matter what.

拥有一个家庭就意味着

你处于一个很奇妙的环境。

因为在你的一生中，无论再怎么样都好

你都会去爱和被爱。

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You see.

Your parents and your siblings

are the only ones

who you can express your feelins to.

显然的，你的父母亲和兄弟姐妹

是唯一你能够让你诉说心情的人。

Well, what I'm sayin might

not be directing express.

(Usually not.)

我所指的不完全是很直接的

诉说心情。

（一般上，都不会这么做。）

Here's an example.

You had a freakin tough day.

First, you woke up late,

late for school, forgotten your text books,

got sent to the dicipline room for detention,

got your friend's drink spilt on your uniform,

and late for bus?

(Well, I'm sorry for dramatically exaggerate.)

打个比喻，

你经历超级倒霉的一天。

首先，你因睡不醒而迟到了学校，

然后呢，你遗漏了课本，

被送入纪律室，被留堂检讨自己，

过后朋友又不小心把饮料打翻在你的制服上，

接下来又迟到没有巴士回家。

（我为我的戏剧化，夸张说法道歉.）

When you got home,

and your brother was shootin hoops

and he asked "how's your day".

And you got freakin mad at him and said

"#$%^& Don't even ask about my day!"

当你回到家时，刚巧弟弟在投篮，

顺口问问你今天过得如何， 而你却很生气的回答他

“#$%^& 把那问题留给你自己！”

And you entered the front door,

your mum asked if you'd like to have some pasta,

you went into your room without the replyin,

and about to blow your room's door.

而当你从前门进来时，妈咪问你吃过午餐了没，

你连回答都没有就直接走进房间，还差点把门都给弄坏了。

You might wonder why I'm sayin all these.

But hey, you realize not I already list the point? ;).

你或许在想我说这些的重点在哪。

可是，你发现我其实已把重点说在里头了?

When you did that to your family members,

they won't really get mad at you.

They knew you had a bad bad day.

Eventhough, sometimes they scream back

somethin like"what's goin on?"

which is obviously what you don't need at that moment.

当你对你家人发泄时，他们其实不会介意和生气。

因为他们明白你过了很不简单的一天。

虽然，有些时候他们还是会追问你发生了什么事情，

但那却不是你需要的。

They're the only people who you can do this to,

and still they love you with all their heart.

They might not tell you how much they love you,

(especially asian families)

but they do.

他们是唯一可以让你这样发泄的人，

然而他们依然那么地爱你。

或许他们不会很直接地告诉你他们多爱你，

（尤其是亚洲家庭）

但他们真的非常爱你。

So the next time,

when your parents get home from work

and scold you or get mad at you

eventhough you did nothin wrong

and it's obviously their fault.

But remember, they might had a tough day

and you'd forgive em' like how they forgive you.

所以呢，下一次当你父母工作回到家时，

无端端骂你或向你发脾气，就体谅体谅他们吧！

记得提醒自己，他们可能过了很不简单的一天。

(01/12/2011) It's His/er Life 那是她/他的生活

You can only try your best.

And if they can't appreciate that,

it's their fault, not yours.

当你已尽全力，而他们不珍惜，

那是他们的错，不是你的错。

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I believed there's this kind of people in your life.

They do what they know is wrong,

they're worry if their parents find out and will

totally kill em' and they still do it.

我相信你身边会有这一种人。

他们总爱做“已经知道是错的事情”，

但却又担心若家人发现会把他们给杀了，

始终他们还是干了。

As a friend, you've done all you can

to keep em' away from gettin into troubles.

In the end, they turn out

stabbing you in the back,

and blaming it on you.

身为朋友，你已经尽了全力做你可以做的，

不让他们惹上麻烦。

结果，他们却在背后捅你一刀，责备你。

Sometimes, you have to learn to let go.

Remind yourself that it's his/er life.

It's not like we're responsible for everyone's life,

eventhough most of the time it's for their own good.

有时候，你必须学习放手。

提醒自己那是她/他的生活。

我们可是无法为每一个人的生活付起责任的，

虽然一般上都是为了他们的好。

In fact, s/he has the rights to lead

his/er life the way s/he wants to.

实际上，他们是有权利选择他们想过的生活。

Let em' paint their own canvas.

就让他们亲自在纸上作画吧！

You don't have to get along with everyone.

or make everyone like you.

你不一定需要和大家都打好关系，

或让大家喜欢你。