(12/04/2012) I Don't Need One 我不需要

True friends stab you in the front.

--Oscar Wilde

真挚的友情在你面捅你，

而不是在背后陷害你。

--奥斯卡。王尔特

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In life, you have friends turn their back on you.

They lie to you, they talk bad things behind you.

在生命里，你一定经历过朋友的背叛。

他们对你撒谎，他们在你背后说你的闲话。

I always think, and I totally understand that

friendship is givin instead of takin.

Like giving trust? Instead of askin trust.

我一直有种观念，那就是

友谊在于付出而不是夺取。

比方说，让一个人信任你，让他们可以依赖你

而不是要求他们的信任，让自己可以同样地相信他们。

I have friends that lied to me.

I just somehow wish they'd understand how I feel.

Because they don't.

我的朋友对我撒了谎。

可我却希望他们明白这种感受。

因为他们并不明白。

I'd rather them to tell me the truth that hurts,

instead of lies that dig-up hatred.

我宁愿他们告诉我那残酷的事实，

而不是形成怨恨的谎言。

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I don't need a friend who changes when I change,

and who nods when I nod;

my shadow does that much better.

--Plurtarch

我并不需要一个当我改变时也改变；

我点头时也点头的朋友。

我的影子做得比较好。

--普鲁塔克