(30/11/2011) Take A Risk 冒险

One who admires you greatly

is hidden before your eyes.

那一个真正欣赏你的人，

一般上都是你从来没发现的那一个。

If someone wants to be a part of your life,

they'll make an effort to be in it.

So don't bother reserving a space in your heart for

someone who doesn't make an effort to stay.

若一个人想成为你生命里的一部分，

他们会尽全力地介入你的生活圈里。

因此，不要顾虑地在心里保留个位子给

任何一个根本就不想留下来的人。

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I believe every single one us

have someone special in our lives.

我相信在我们每一个人的生命里

都会有个很特别的人。

This special one

can be someone who you wish to be with

or someone who you already with.

这一个特别的人，

可以是你想要和她/他在一起的人

又或则是你已经她/他在一起的人。

There's times when we adore,

we admire and we look up to someone

but they never know.

很多时候，我们看上某个人而他们从来不知道。

Or we put in a lot of efforts

and we never get return.

又或者是我们做了很多事情，

却从来没有得到回报。

And because of our overly keenness

towards that someone makes us

loses our rationality.

也因为我们对那些人的过于喜爱，

造成了我们失去理智。

We waste our time and strength

on someone who never realize

and appreciate.

我们浪费了时间和精神在那些

从来没有发现或珍惜的人。

It's time to take a risk.

If you don't go after what you want,

you'll never have it.

是时候冒险了。

若你不去争取你想要的，

你是永远都得不到的。

Anyone can make you happy

by doing somethin special.

But only someone special can make you

happy without doing anything.

任何一个人可以为你做件特别的事讨你欢心

但却只有那一个特别的人就算什么都不做也可以讨你开心。

(27/11/2011) Used To 曾经

The presence of certain person

in your life might not be long,

but you'll take forever

just to remember em'.

有些人出现的时间不长，

但是你会用一辈子来记住她/他。

Nothin is impossible.

It's just a matter of time.

It takes time to fade away.

And when you turn around,

you realize you've gone too far.

They're actually not so important as you think they were.

很多事情不是不可能的，但时间久了，它就会淡忘。

回头看时才发现，她/他其实并没有那么重要。

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Human is a dependence lifeform.

We're so used to things around us,

and we couldn't bear of changes.

Sudden changes.

人类是种非常依赖性的生物。

我们对身边的一切是那么的熟悉，

然而我们无法接受一时的改变。

No matter physicallly, mentally or spiritually.

无论是肢体上也好，思维也好又或者是心灵上也好。

I always doubt myself if I'd ever let go

of somethin or someone which

bother me emotionally.

It takes a really long period of time until

I really let go.

我常常怀疑自己是否能够完全的解脱。

解脱于那些人/事物。那些影响我的情绪的。

我花了很长的时间才完全的放下。

Remember, no one will stay in your life forever.

And you need to learn to welcome people to

walk into your life, and learn to say goodbye.

记得，没有任何一个人会永远留在你的生命里。

而你必须学会迎接那些走进你生命的人和学会说再见。

(24/11/2011) I Had A Friend Who Believed In Me 知己

I am success today

because I had a friend

who believed in me

and I didn't have the heart

to let him down.

--Abraham Lincoln

我拥有今天的成就全归

我拥有一个相信我的朋友。

而为了不让他失望，我成功了。

--亚伯拉罕林肯

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It's important to have optimism

even at the worst situation.

In fact,

you don't ask for optimism

when somethin really bad happens.

And it will not exist.

保持乐观是非常重要的，

就算在最糟的情况之下也一样。

实际上，

当情况很不乐观时，你所求的不应该是乐观。

然而，它也不会存在。

There's a serious difference of scenario

of facin alone compared to more than one.

And the results usually depends on how strong you are,

and how strong is your partner.

独自面对或多过一个人面对的画面有很大的差别。

而一般上来说，结果都和你本身心灵上有多强有关，

也同样的和你同伴的心灵有关。

When you're alone,

you get confused easily,

you get shaken easily.

当你独自一人时，

会很容易被迷惑，被动摇。

And at the right moment,

all you need is just a friend, a partner

who can share you his/er shoulder

and a pair of warm hands who will let you hold on to

til the end of everythin.

那一刻，你所需要的其实就只是个朋友，个同伴。

一个可以和你分享她/他肩膀的人，

和一双温暖的手心，告诉你

你可以一直牵着她/他的手直到一切结束。

This person I'm sayin,

might not be the one who's the closest to me.

Neither my best friend nor my cousin.

S/he can be anybody else who walk into my life

at the moment when I'm needy.

这一个我在说的人，

不一定是和我最亲的人。

她/他不一定是我最要好的朋友或我的亲戚。

她/他可以是任何一个在我最需要扶持的时候

走进我生命里的一个人。

Thank you for bein there for me

whenever I'm in need.

This might not sound really obvious to you.

But when you're readin this, I hope you know

it's you.

谢谢你总是在我最需要时给予我帮助。

或许这对你来说不是很明显，

但我依然希望当你在读时，可以知道，

那就是你。

(23/11/2011) Trust 信任

I believe trust sounds

really common to all of us.

In my perspective,

trust means believing with no doubts.

我相信大家对‘信任’

这个词汇一点都不陌生。

‘信任’对我来说就是毫无怀疑地相信。

Trust seems like an easy thing to do in my head

but it's not so easy when you try it in real life.

我常常认为信任是件很简单的事情，

可是在现实生活中那一点也不简单。

When people show you who they are, believe em'.

In fact, some people are just not worth to believe.

当他们对你坦诚时，相信吧！

事实却是，有些人就是那么不值得信任。

Sometimes, it's just so hard.

We put too much hope and trust in someone,

and we ended up bein doubtful bout' all the sincere ones,

just to make ourselves believe s/he didn't turn on your back.

有些时候就是那么地让人懊恼。

我们放了太大的希望和信任，

结果呢，为了让自己相信他/她并没有背叛自己

而对那些真诚的人产生了疑惑。

This sounds really bad in my integrity.

To sacrifice all those relationships and trust builded

for someone who stab you in the back,

especially a close one, like friend.

在我的原则里，这是件可悲的事。

为了一个背叛你的人，

(尤其是一个和你有很亲密关系的人，比如说朋友)

而牺牲了那些真诚的，对我来说真的很不应该。

Listen to your heart instead of rumours and gossips.

You know what's real and what's right.

别再听信谣言和闲言碎语了，

是时候听听心里的那把声音了。

你知道什么是真的，是对的。

(20/11'/2011) It Matters Both

May those who you love

bring love back to you.

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Remember all those time,

we're so stubborn

and all we say is

"as long as I love him/er

it doesn't matter if s/he loves me back."

It's not wrong to love someone

who doesn't loves you back.

But what's actually important?

(I saw this quote somewhere.)

This is what it says:

I asked an old man,

"Which is more important?

To love or to be loved?"

The old man replied:

"Which wing is more important to a bird?

Is it the left wing or the right wing?"

So now you see, it is actually

the same thing.

When both are present will only

true happiness present.

Love isn't just about loving,

but also to be loved.

(19/11/2011) Expectations

No one is perfect.

Imperfections is what made mankind so unique.

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Oftentimes, I got so disappointed

with people who let me down.

And through every experience

when I got disappointed,

I realize the more expectations I put in

the more I get disappointed.

I've learned that

I should not expect someone to be perfect

like how I want em' to be.

Cos no one is perfect.

(Neither do I.)

Remember,

don't blame people for disappointing you,

blame yourself for expecting too much from them.

Learn to accept for who they are,

instead of wanting em' to change in the way you

want em' to be.

(17/11/2011) Weakness

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If a person..

is what you thought of every morning,

and the last thing that stays on your mind every night

then s/he's your weakness.

Just like krytonite and superman.

Learnin howta control your own

emotions, feelins and thoughts is important.

These are what leads to wrong living

if it all starts to goes wrong.

(16/11/2011) Normal? Not so!

Everybody seems normal until you get to know em'.

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I always thought I'm different.

I thought of things which normal people

doesn't bother to even ask much bout.

Oftentimes, I seriously doubt I'm psycho.

I look at people all around me,

and they all seems perfectly normal to me.

And this makes me feel more uncomfortable

to be with em'.

But, as I experienced life.

(I'm still experiencing anyway)

I realize no one is born to be normal

as they seem to be.

They just seem normal cos I don't know em' well enough.

God made EVERY single one of us

special and unique.

There's something, at least one

element in us which the whole world

doesn't possess.

So, don't even doubt yourself as a weirdo.

Cos I am one too! ;)

(15/11/2011) Pick One

You always have at least two choices,

even if you don't like it both.

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Choosing has always been the hardest thing

I'd ever have to do in my entire life.

Choosing means pick one among the others,

and it means you can only have one and

you've got to give up on the others.

There's time when we're given varies choices

and we ended up wantin all of em',

that's what makes it hard to make our decision.

OR

We were given only a few options,

and we don't want it all.

And hesitation stops us from makin our decision.

(14/11/2011) True Love Waits

1. Love is a strong feelin of deep affection for someone.

2. True friend is the one who always stand by your side

supporting you and covering you even if you're wrong.

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One.

Love,

is not simply what the world say it is.

Nor Hollywood understand what love is.

Love isn't just about bein with an opposite sex,

makin up romance, textin all day long

and talk on the phone daily just like a punch card.

Love is an un-explain-able, un-describe-able,

and un-define-able feelin towards somebody.

Love isn't simply just about kissin, huggin, holdin hands

or makin love.

Anyone can be together kissin, huggin etc.

But that's not what love is.

That's like-ness, keen-ess towards the act of love.

Love is Holy.

Love is a pretty, a beautiful, expression and emotion.

And the act of love is a miracle, it creates life.

Two.

True friends are those who will never leave you

alone facing your own emotions.

True friends are those who will be by your side.

Especially when you're sad and you're doin somethin

isn't right, and they're still there coverin you back,

trustin your instincts, respect your decision,

keepin an eye on you

makin sure you're not takin the wrong path.

True friends isn't just buddies hanging around,

havin fun, teasing and makin fun of you.

They're those who will call you and text you when

you're absent for school.

They're those who will rush to you or call you an ambulance

the moment when you send em' an S.O.S.

True friends don't take advantages of you.

True friends don't take away from you, but give.

They build up trust instead of askin from you.

That's why there's none of what we call betrayal.

And most importantly, true friends stab you in the front.

(12/11/2011) Present Is A Gift From God

Do more of what makes you happy.

It's okay to break the rules,

as long as you are good enough not to get caught,

and you aren't hurting anyone.

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Oftentimes, we care way too much about

how people look at us and what people say about us.

(Here's the point.)

I live this life for myself.

And we live our lifes for ourselves.

By concernin too much about how people look at us

will only stop us from doin what we wanna do,

and we'll never reach the point of satisfactory and happiness.

Sometimes, we're not doin somethin wrong,

and just simply because of afraid it might goes wrong in the future

will stop us from gaining our own happiness NOW.

Remember that life is precious

and you need to live the present as well as

hold on to your dreams for the future.

This present is a gift from God,

and that is why it is named

present.

(11/11/2011) Stop And Stare

You never really knew how much you can affect somebody.

If you see a friend without smile, give him/er one of yours.

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I never really knew how much I meant to somebody.

Nor do I understand how important I am to somebody.

I never realize I made such impact to a person.

When I'm happy, they're happy.

When I'm down, their concern came rushing in.

We always take things, and people for granted,

while we were busy takin care of the unecessary.

Sometimes, all we need is just a short moment to

stop and stare.

Look around what's goin on,

and you'll find out what is it that's necessary and important.

(10/11/2011) Let Go

God puts people in your life for a reason,

and removes them from your life for a better reason.

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People come and go. All the time.

You cannot stop anyone from leavin.

And the fact is that, even if we- ourselves doesn't change

doesn't mean they will stay the same.

Or the oppposite, even if they doesn't change,

doesn't by mean we're not gonna change.

I always wonder why God blessed me with those who I loved,

and took em' away when I'm not ready to let go.

And now I know why. :)

Because, they were here to shape and mould me into who I am today,

and He's blessing me someone better.

ALIVE

Hey! Hmm.. so..

What more can I say?

I'm back to faithfulness in blogging.

I'm happy. I do. :)

Thanks to ya'll Bloggers for inspiring me.

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This time I'm doin somthin different.

Somethin different from how I used to write my blog posts.

I ain't gonna write much bout lifes and stories.

I'm goin to write bout' what I've learnt. :).

Feel free to leave comment and droppin by my chatbox!

XOXO, Kai.